Merrick, I just wanted to comment on your call to possible OM#2. I think it's terrific. First of all, the young man might not know W is married, he might think you are OK with the arrangement, he might be clueless. So, I think what you did was in line and appropriate. I often think WASes spin tales out of nothing which the OP swallows hook-line-and-sinker. A little truth squad action is really called for.
Second, I want to tell you how impressed I am by your faith. I think it has given you a deep, calm center -- one you draw on constantly as you face these challenges. Your heart is in the right place and you seem grounded and centered. It's really wonderful to see.
