Tonight we are going to dinner! I think we are getting there. We have been talking about future plans a little. My H is still like a clam when it comes to feelings though. He would rather not talk about them. I wish I could get him to open up and I want that heart to heart talk. The last few things I would like is that my H remove the OW # from his cell phone directory. I know for sure the calls have stopped and I want him to do it without me asking. I also want him to wear his wedding ring. I hate to bring it up because it shows I still look at his phone and if I keep at the wedding ring it's like I am nagging at him. I need a lot of patience here. But all in all I am excited about dinner. Keep piecing and stay focused...it's a long process. I guess it took us 10 years to get like this so I expect it to take at least a year to repair it.