Today and yesterday was filled with positivity. My H called me not once but 3 times to say he would be late. This is something that was one of our issues over the years, that is no call, doesn't show up after shift is over, only God knew when he would be home. His answer to me was always "I don't answer to you". He also agreed to go away with me, something I have been wanting for a long time. I found a program called Retrouvaille and I want to ask him to go with me. Not sure how this will go. It's supposed to be a retreat where a married couple can rediscover themselves and there have been many success stories that go along with it. I can't believe things are starting to turn around. It's just getting better and better! We still have many issues but at least the tension from this summer is starting to fade. I like that he calls me all the time now to let me know what he is up too. It shows me that he's trying in a big way. I don't think we would have arrived at this point if it were for the DR book and this boards. Thanks to everyone on it for their support.
