You can buy SAM-e direct on line for a little bit cheaper than in the stores. And they do have some customs issues, but not a problem.
Slowly, I think this boundary is excellent for you! I don't know about you guys, but when others have an expectation of me that is implied and there is not consent, I feel resentment bubbling and brewing. And unless I say something about how I feel to the offender, it doesn't go away.
This is a bigger problem with my nuclear family--I'm the oldest child and everyone expects me to accommodate others nicely and without complaint because it's what I've always done (typical oldest children go out of their way to please their elders, and I'm no exception). It annoys me that they wouldn't have the same expectation of my brother or sister...
But, but, but... good for you!
Looking forward to you joining us in the 2005/Year of Ourselves club!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
