Greetings from a very cold part of the world today I'm up late trying to finish a project, but am stuck in a rut, so here I am

Little in life is more attractive than a warm invitation to which there is no pressure or expectation attached

I cannot remember where I saw this, but it strikes me as a good tagline for life. I've been noticing that as I wait for NG to invite me, he is doing the same. Time to break this unconstructive cycle - every invitation I extend to him is accepted with enthusiasm and warmth, so I should continue with what works, right?

His LLs have been tough to decipher, but I think they are in the following order:

1. quality time - and this is so hard for me because I need to be doing three million things at the same time. rehabilitation of Slowly is in progress, the constant working from home is a big part of meeting his QT needs

2. physical touch - not a problem here, we have LOTS of contact during the day and night

3. words of affirmation - this is definitely work in progress, because he honestly does/says so little I have to become a better affirmation opportunity hound...

Life at work is incredibly busy, and I'm feeling so out of touch with everyone here. Roll on 2005!

Slowly

A Liberal Allowance of Time