Slowly, I'm with you about the lying. It's like you think you've just taken two steps forward and then along comes one of their lies and it sets you back 10 steps. I agree with the other advice to just sit on it for now. When my H left the first time in August and came back a week later, he said that he had ended his EA and would not be contacting her and he told her so. What he didnt' know was that the cell phone details all calls placed and received. Hey, he wanted me to do all the bills and financial things. It's not my fault if he didn't look at the bills. On a couple occasions I would ask if he had talked to the OW at all and he said "absolutely not, I ended that". I had my proof that this was a lie but didn't not bring it up until I knew I would benefit from bringing it up. After he left again and said that he would not be seeing this OW still, I received his trip tik from AAA with directions to her. I never gave it to him and still have not even told him that I received it. Just wait for a time when you know it's, as DR says, when you know you will get a better response. Duct tape is right! Put on two pieces, just in case for now!
