Hmmmmm. How did they fall out? Does he know you saw them? Were you snooping? Does that matter?
If you keep asking for these and they are not forthcoming and if he does not know you saw them then one suggestion is that you do something proactive... You read my h's confessional about credit card etc... It is not good for them to be hiding from us and for us to be the mean authority figure..
Can you act as if and have a conversation later, when you are not so peeved and say something like, "I have been thinking about the missing credit card statements. They cover a rather difficult time in our R, I want you to know that if there is anything that makes you uncomfortable, etc...maybe I do not need to see them.,.. or maybe it might be easier for you to hand them over if you know that I view them as HISTORY and do not want to have them interfere on the great things we are doing for our R now."
Something like that. Bottom line is making him feel safe to come clean... then thanking him AND MEANING IT once he has. Nothing on that credit card bill should come between the two of you.....
