Hi Maya and H2H - Yeah, this is huge, for him, being able to open up, and for me, doing a complete 180 WOA would be good, except NG is like a turtle - he'll stick his head out, and if he things its noticed, he'll scurry back under his shell quickly. Sooo, I need to affirm without it coming across as a big deal, or 'heavy'. I'm sure the moment will present itself.
I'm wrestling with another dilemma at the moment. A few of our credit card and phone bills have gone astray (since June/July, when there was still contact with ow). NG has been promising to get duplicates, and yesterday, some docs fell out of his briefcase, and what d'ya know, the missing statements. So, the lies continue, and that hurts. Guys, how do I tackle this - confront (where would that get me ) or just file them away and move on? Damn, this is hard. Every one of these 'discoveries' just brings back lousy memories.
WOA would be good, except NG is like a turtle - he'll stick his head out, and if he things its noticed, he'll scurry back under his shell quickly. Sooo, I need to affirm without it coming across as a big deal, or 'heavy'. I'm sure the moment will present itself. 
) or just file them away and move on? Damn, this is hard. Every one of these 'discoveries' just brings back lousy memories. 
Slowly 
