Quote: We are expecting visitors next weekend, and I used to shoulder the bulk of entertaining chores. No more volunteering for things - these are actually NG's childhood friends, he can ask for help
Careful on this one, if you have been shouldering these chores they will have been taken for granted, like my H took them for granted, and they won't even have noticed all the work that gets done over a weekend of entertaining. All my H had to do was open a bottle of wine and hand it around and be the life and soul, the rest - planning, cleaning, shopping, cooking, washing up, putting away, making up of beds, washing etc etc was up to moi.
If you decide you won't do this automatically any more, careful you don't just get seen as a spiteful B****h.
How will you go about this 180?
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
