Hi Kelly - It's certainly a thought. Maybe starting with nights out with the girls. Though the last time I did this, he sulked for a couple of days

In the meantime, I'm going back to small goals, monitoring baby steps and moving my mountain slowly. He seems to be less communicative now than a couple of months ago; I'm just going to chalk it up to 'itchy butt' I have loads of money matters to straighten out, and that is what I'll focus on.

Goals for the week then:
1. set up personal allowance - I've been way too frugal these past years, and need change tack a little, spoil myself
2. wind up a dormant business we have had for a while - basically clean up our tax records

We are expecting visitors next weekend, and I used to shoulder the bulk of entertaining chores. No more volunteering for things - these are actually NG's childhood friends, he can ask for help

Still looking for 180s, Slowly

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