After our recent "discussion" over at my place, I thought I would send you something you might.... I say, might...gain insight from.
I'm not all that sure I have a complete grasp of your sitch yet, but for some reason or another, my gut is telling me you are dealing with something that is similar to what I am dealing with.
I see alot of wonderful people here offering encouragement and that is sooo helpful, but when it comes right down to it, I am seeing a pattern to his behavior.
I'm not saying it's as bad as my sitch, if anything It seems to me like you have something to work with here ...your H seems to want to work with you at times and does seem sincere in his confusion.
Like I said, I might be way off but, something tells me that you could gain some understanding and thus some direction when it comes to dealing with your H from the websites I want to direct you to.
Please keep in mind that everybody shows SOME of these traits SOME of the time, but I think if this is truely what you are dealing with, you will know it almost immediately in your own "gut".
...your H seems to want to work with you at times and does seem sincere in his confusion.
