He feels foolish and probably at a loss as to how to make it up to you. He also probably expects huge doses of "I told you so." Or its equivalent. MAybe if he brings it up and if he feels some shadow feelings of shame, you might tell him that you are grateful for the experience because it gives you both the opportunity to seee how rare and valuable real commtiment and love can be... anbd how you both now have an opportunity to build a loving R from the grouns up together.

then you can tell him some of your thoughts about romancing each other. I have great feelings about you and NG. I think he and you will really have the opportuntiy to look back at this as a turning point in your M... and how it steered you onto a more positive course together.

maya