h's comment about the restraining order drove home a point that it took me a LONG time to learn...my h very often arrives at and communicates to me the same conclusion I'm hoping for ... it's just very often not as quick as I would expect. "sitting" with something for a while (as opposed to putting my conclusions out there and possibly alienating him) has been a good (but challenging) lesson for me!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
