HD wrote on page 1 of this thread << How did I get here? >>
HairDog, I am not as sex starved as you are but almost wound up that way. W likes to watch "Lifetime Time" and "Oxygen" channels for "WOMEN" on the satalite system. Many movies about male dentist, lawyers that have a nice family and wife. The male character also has his honey on the side. The old betrayed wife and cheating husband theme. We also watch programs that deal with 3rd world countries where women carry water and gather firewood while the men discuss politics.
When my W talks about how unfair these situations are and seh says "MEN ARE SUCH JERKS" I finally told her if she was implying that I treated her poorly, and that she should give me an example. She said I was OK. Then I asked her who she knew (female) that was treated poorly. W could not name anyone she knew personally.
I had enough of her putdowns in general and said if she wanted to fill her life with cheating husband movies, I would not sit with her whils she watched those types of movies. W did not like my comment, but 6 months later those cheating husband moves are not watched in my house.
Also about the thread "asexuals" I am believing more in that concept. Not to say a LD spouse can not become more sexual, but starting to believe more people could be relative happy without sex with a regular frequency, kind of like once in a blue moon.
Your W's comment about doing with out sex seems to be a power struggle and would lead me to think about controlled seperation (30 days or what works for you) if I were in that situation. (after ruling out mental problems or severe depression)
Now Mrs Hairdog and Mr.FF boy, would that be interesting. Would the polar caps double in size or would they see how stubborn they are and do something about their own attitude toward their real spouse.
W and I watch "Wife Swap", ABC network, and talk about how OTHER people seem far from the norm and how they can correct things in their R. It seems to help us a little sometimes.
OG Lou, Wondering if lawyer believe in binding arbitration.
