Corri wrote << I think you gave me the very best compliment I've ever had on this board: you called me HD!! Whoo-whoo!!! Actually, I came to this board as an LD. And while I now consider myself to be a reformed LD, I would never go so far as to claim myself to be HD.>>
Corri. My comment about being HD was not ment to be in absolute terms, but relative to what some "almost no drive" spouses here on the BB are portrayed as in actual frequency and ESPECIALLY attitude.
Frequency is important and so is attitude. The position of one spouse saying "I do not like sex" and the other spouse should accept (to endure without protest or reaction) that is painful. You seemed to understand that ML is a two way street and to me it seemed like you were HD compared to people who do not want budge or consider the other spouse's needs.
