Hairdog, thanks for chiming in on my thread, brother. Us Missouri, HD, husbands need to stick together. If for no other reason, than to go out and have some beers and objectify women!
At any rate, I think you are a very patient man to have tolerated a sexless marriage for as long as you have, and I truly hope for your sake, that things improve, however if they do not, and if you ever hear the gut wrenching words I heard yesterday, I hope you have the courage to move on. The very courage I hope I have in me to follow through.