I was reading the heart-wrenching words said to Fatherof3 over on his thread. I was thinking to myself (and saying to him) that it would be the end for my M if my W ever said this to me.
And then I thought, "would she ever actually say this to me?" Or would she just dangle me along, knowing that such a direct and final statement as F0f3's W said would be the end? Instead, she would just continue to avoid me physically, but would point the blame of our lack of intimacy back toward me, or toward man's evil sex drive, or itchiness, or fatigue, or whatever.
So now I have to ask her: "If you ever decided that you no longer wanted to have sex with me, would you actually tell me?"
I assume her answer will be "yes, I'd tell you, and No, I'm not at that point." But I need to ask, and I need to hear her answer. I'm ready to hear the other, dreaded answer that that Fo3 heard . . . and to take action on it if necessary.
