It is interesting that your W shows a little jealous streak. I really think that is part of it even though it is couched in feminist rhetoric. My attitude is that if my H makes the occasional "yummy noise" about a woman or surfs the occasional porn (both of which he does) I don't really care as long as I am not walking around in a drought (which I am). Then it really p*sses me off! What happens if you try a bold comment to your W like, "These women are attractive but honestly I would rather boink you dear."
Karen, who admits that her own occasional jealous feelings are not very attractive
