And, I am hanging lights today. My red chili pepper lights, and I'm hanging them on the headboard of my bed.
I am doing it just for affect. I wonder what, if anything, he'll say when he sees them. LOL
I also agree with the Buddist comments. Buddist philosophy is very mellow, accepting; not angry or explosive or judgemental.
I do have one shred of empathy for Mrs HD's issues with regard to objectification-- I'm not a fan of porn or the entire sex industry for that reason and others. But that is light years away from the context of lovely horndog behavior between a couple.