Aw Hairdog, I really feel for you. The more I think about your sitch, the less I think this is really about sex. I think your W is really mad at you. I don't think you appreciating her moving is anywhere near enough, I think it was too big a thing for her to do, and that she now regrets it.

I don't think this is about sex. It's deeper and bigger.
I hope I am dead wrong.