{{{ The more I listen to her drivel (we had yet another talk on the way home from T-giving), the more I think it is just her latest reason to avoid sex. In other words, she's not really too tired; she's not really too itchy; she's not really mad at me; she's not really a man-hater; she's not really too fat; she's not really believing that sex is evil. She's just afraid to get close to me because of abandonment issues/childhood }}}
HairDog, It sounds like you could fix everyting and your W will still find things to not have sex with you.. Like, the "door knob" story I read some where onthe BB. The W used the excuse she did not like the doorknob on the bedroom door, it was killing her sex drive.
Ask your W for her 30 day plan. What would have to happen if she had 30 days to prepare to be sexual again. Kind of like perparing for a race. You have 30 days to get in shape before the 5K run.
{{{ She's just afraid to get close }}} She was close, what happened to what you once had? Mental illness?
OG Lou, Boy, some onions have a lot of nasty layers to peel.
