Thanks for asking, Annette. Nothing much going on. She hasn't brought up her twisted philosophy lately, but I am prepared to comment on it if she does. We are driving from KC to northern Illinois where her family is from to spend T-giving with them, so we will have lots of time to talk, if necessary. Generally, we get along okay...some days good, some days not so good.
I've been a low-pressure kind of guy recently, since all the kids are at my house due to me ex-W's two week trip to Korea. She comes home tonight, and we leave for Illinois tomorrow, so not a lot of quiet, one-on-one time lately.
Thanks again for asking, Annette. Here's wishing all my imaginary friends a happy Thanksgiving.
Your welcome HD, I worry bout ya when I don't see you post for several days.
Nothing much going on with me either. Had a doggie show sat so was gone all day and tired that night. Sunday H and I went to lunch and then to the movies. We saw Polar Express which I thought was wonderful. So did he. Ohhhhh I did slip into his bed sat night when I went to bed, he was not in there yet but came in couple minutes later. Didn't comment on it, but put his arm over me and promptly went to sleep. Must have been ok, cause I was asleep almost as fast as he was LOL.
Rockford? I understand that there is a nice oriental garden in Rockford, and if I'm not mistaken a butterfly museum, in case you get sick of the inlaws.
I've lost some of the desperation that accompanied some of my previous posts. No, we haven't M'd L again, but I know it's just a matter of time. She led me to the trough of early morning feeding and she must know I'll be coming there again.
I do have a small bit of advice for you, HD. Your W says a lot of things, some of which are hurtful to you . On the other hand, she is still a woman, and, despite her proclamations, she is probably still prone to communicate with signs and signals rather than merely with words. The day she is pre-horny for you, she won't even know it, but she may let you know subtly, and that will be the time to pounce. Her calling you over to witness the naughty website might have been Mrs HD for "Take me I'm yours!" Or not.
On the menu at Popeyes is something called a "breast upcharge." It costs about a dollar. I've always wanted to order one. No chicken, just a breast upcharge.
Quote: She says, “perfect example of how this drive to have sex can cause irrational, even dangerous behavior and beliefs. The day is going to sh*t and you’re happy because you’re having sex.”
This post was a really interesting insight into the mind of Mrs. HD. One of my sisters is an atheist. She thinks religion has done more harm than good in the history of humanity due to events such as the Crusades, witch burning, censorship, puritanical repression of the arts etc.. She realizes that she is in a very small minority with her point of view, but she defends it all the more stridently for that reason.
Perhaps, your W has become firmly entrenched in her anti-sex point of view in part because she knows it is a minority viewpoint. This allows her to feel oppressed by the sex loving majority and therefore in some way superior to them. This also allows her to take herself out of the realm of sexual competition. She doesn't have to worry about looking good in a teddy for the same reason my sister doesn't have to worry about taking the Lord's name in vain.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
. On the other hand, she is still a woman, and, despite her proclamations, she is probably still prone to communicate with signs and signals rather than merely with words. The day she is pre-horny for you, she won't even know it, but she may let you know subtly, and that will be the time to pounce. Her calling you over to witness the naughty website might have been Mrs HD for "Take me I'm yours!" Or not. 
Is... is that JJ? 
Welcome back.