Quote: It's a choice to always put your children before your mate, not an inevitable part of parenthood. That is how it can be eliminated--make better choices.
I guess my W will have to make better choices. As Donkey said... "pick me! ooh, pick me! meeee!"
Hairy wrote:
Quote: I wasn't talking about eliminating your children. I was talking about doing a better job of balancing the amount of attention you give to them with that which you give your mate.
I can't force W to find the balance without seeming like Shrek, and I don't wanna piss her off or start another "It's always about you, isn't it?" rant. So, what do i do? I express my displeasure with situations as they occur, and let her interpret that displeasure however she wants. End of story. Or something.
