Eyes,
Just to let you know, I read the Gurian book last weekend and it was very interesting!
I had no idea there were so many physical differences between a male brain and female. I suppose I thought a human brain was a human brain.

As you can guess, my H did not fit the typical mold but I still learned a ton about him anyway. Mostly (this sounds stupid but will turn out to be very significant info for me) do NOT try to engage him in Talks when his brain is shut off, which for him is at bedtime, and do not try to reason with him when he's angry at me. His body is either worked up and wanting to take physical action (which he never would) or it will just flat shut down. It was a good read!

Hairy, this is where I got the quote about the feminist who had changed her mind when raising her son.

HP