Thanks eyesopened for the point about skiptracing. I'm actually not that concerned about your success in finding out about me. I've left plenty of foot prints on the internet(s) and I can't erase them all. What's the worse that could happen? My W find this site? I've contemplated that before and accept the consequences. Since I'm not planning to run for office, I don't think the info would benefit someone who was trying to embarrass me. One of my friends in high school once described me as a dog who wanders into the football stadium and pees on the 50 yard line during a game: unable to be shamed. But thanks for the heads up.
As for your other point, it's certainly possible that she has been molested in the past. I have asked her about this possibility and she has said that she doesn't think so. However, it is food for thought.
Also, thanks for the Gurian site. I'll give it a look-see. I doubt she'll be interested. But hey, Paul got laid this week so stranger things have happened.
