Wow - what alot of very insightful responses from everyone.

Struck me funny Mrs. NOP - sometimes I think I am that dog.

HD - I think a C would be a good idea. Mrs HD is hiding behind a flurry of crap. Even she can't really buy all this hooey. I'm not even sure that the thing she is hiding from is the sex itself - I think she is telling you that. She doesn't even sound vexed at you. She is arguing with herself.

Karen

PS Lil and HP - I often feel that I have written or thought exactly what you have written. Being the HD W feels like such a charicarature when all we're really asking for is some nookie a few times per week.