I agree with annette...she is so determined to believe this, no matter what this is going to be her opinion. Sex, in a very intimate way, is the physical form of love. It just is, that is a fact. And if I happen to come across seeing two people having sex on tv or anywhere else, well, for me it is terribly arousing...I guess that is just the way I was made? And I am glad! How she can say that sex has nothing with love is just ignorant...sex can come in many forms, but for two people who love each other, it is one of the most important parts of a healthy and wonderful R.