HD said: ------------- .... it’s just so damn cold in that bedroom . . . in more ways than one. -------------
I understand, but she needs to see you comfortable with your sexuality. Wanting to be naked with your lover and have sex with them is normal, not abnormal. The desire to be together and mate is why we have survived on this planet. That isn't animalistic, it is immutably practical.
I hope that she is choosing to involve herself in these beliefs out of rebelliousness, and not because she is having spiritual level epiphanies. Again, you will have to determine which is true.
If it is rebelliousness, then she has some big issues with you that you are going to have to address.
No matter what you believe the core problems are at this point, the race has started, even if you tripped out of the gate.
So, what is your plan to recover your marriage?
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
