I don't even think SHE believes what she is saying..or, rather, she believes what she's saying but she knows it's completely full of holes.
The Bad Day scenario....in what way does it promote dangerous behavior and irrationality?
Look, sometimes my days go badly (no REALLY they do!! ha ha) and yet my D2 can come up to me and throw her little arms around my neck and say I love you Mama, while she pats my back and, oh, Hairy she just takes it all away! I'm certain that your wife must have had moments like this with D3, am I right? WHAT is the difference here? One person is taking refuge in another's body and wallowing in the love that is there. What's not to like about that! Taking refuge in each other is part of the human condition, as is sex. She is waving up a huge smokescreen and hoping that no one notices that she's fulla baloney. And the high sex drive comment...well sure she feels aroused at times, she IS human! But, like my H, she prides herself on being able to subvert that drive and take that energy and pour it into something else. Well, good for her. You are not built that way. Can't SHE accept the differences? Why does she bid for you to accept her the way she is, all the while trying to neuter you?
And I really detest the way she tries to bait you. She pulls up a porn site on accident and then gets YOU in there to see it, wanting so badly for you to get turned on so that she can profess her disgust for what an animal you are. You were smart and didn't take the bait but she was already worked up and started a fight anyway.
I think her world must be very lonely if she never takes refuge in another and handles all her triumphs and heartaches with no human touch.
