Thought I'd chime in on this one and maybe shed some light on how love and sex can become disconnected. I can love my H and I can ML with him, but not both at the same time. It would seem that I am not skilled in emotional multitasking. When I feel stressed, I don't also feel horny. It was in recent months that I can even feel aroused durning ML. I assume that if I keep working on it, I'll get to a point where ML and loving will inhabit the same space and time. There is an ancient disconnection between my brain and my body. Living in my head protected me from having to think about sex in physcial terms. I could intellectualize physical intimacy. It's a protection that I am trying to shed.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
