been there done that and tried it for a year. I call him everyday it seems and tell him to STOP spending money cause it ain't there to spend. He does this all the time. we have borrowed money from his family and friends and took loans out because this happens every month. I am sorry if I made it seem like this is a one time thing of his. He lies and tells me he won't spend anymore then more stuff goes through. I am at the end of my rope. He doesn't listen at all when I tell him to stop. He just agrees with me and keeps spending money. We owe everybody and his brother now and can't pay anyone back cause he keeps spending it all