WHOA?!?! Liv3b...back up...first you are exstatic about him calling and pouring out everything! Now you are mad about the bank account..Is there anyway that his or your family could lend you some cash until you get money to pay them back...just get enough cash to cover the checks that are out and let him know to NOT spend anything until you can get more money in the acct. Money isnt everything and I would be basking in the fact that he misses you and wants to come home. Don't be mad about it...hang in there girl...dont go jumpin to conclusions...when you get a chance, tell him that you have control over the bank account and you will tell him when it is ok to spend money and how much he can spend. Do you all have a bank that lets you check things online? If so, let him check it to make sure it is ok to get money out or spend..
Sounds like things are lookin up for you all...just hang in there...talk to you soon!