Should I say I love you at the end of my emails? I went into his email box and deleted the emails I had previously sent him thank god he has not checked his email yet. The emails were just me trying to work on us with him. I am not emailing him untill he emails me.I will not call him untill he calls me. When he calls should I say I love you? If he calls. He always complains I don't say I love you first. I don't give enough affection. so maybe I could respond to his advances. For instance he calls me and I say I love you first but I cut the conversation short with I have to get off now. I feel like maybe if he had to chase me abit then he will start to do what he is supposed to be doing. He won't take the relationship for granted anymore.