also he seems to take me for granted. He does not follow through with any thing he promises to do such as therapy. Should I just go dark? or should I do my best to show affection and be supportive no complaining and lots of effort on my part and no relationship talk for a few months and if he doesn't respond to that then go dark after he has gotten used to alot of attention from me. I am always givig him attention just negative attention. always pleading with him to follow through with promises.