Wow HP - you are right on the money. I want his efforts to be enough but...they aren't. I do all kinds of mental gyrations to try to understand his POV but I mostly don't even know what it is. About love he is clear - he loves me, he thinks I am wonderful etc... About sex what I hear is a set of excuses UNLESS we are on vacation then all of the sudden every day or even twice/day a couple of the days is fine with him. His signals are so mixed that I just don't understand what he is really thinking. And I am lucky as can be that he loves me, says so, we get along very well and as he says everything is good on most of the cylinders.

Ok - here I go - feeling "lucky" and thinking good thoughts for the evening.

Karen, who has her olive branch extended with panties hanging off the end!!