Thanks for the post - his bb comment was for my benefit. He likes them whatever their size. I am the one who wishes they were bigger - they match the rest of me. I still have a couple of pounds (5) to lose since the baby (my third) but I'm back in my size 4s. This is his first baby. I am more than aware that more children further complicates any issues that are outstanding. That is why we are seeing the C. H would love more children. The rest of the M is excellent, we are great partners and collaborators. IMHO I think the C is meeting with him alone to let him know that he had better get a hold of his issues because we cannot continue to run our M this way. He just seems stuck. Hopefully she can help.
