Well, I find myself in an interesting spot. I spoke with the C and she suggested that I quit explaining that "I am not just being needy" and start "being the bitch." She says that he may not be capable of what I am asking but that he needs to stop sidestepping. I should keep pointing out the sidestepping. That being said, we have a "date" on Saturday night. I have no idea how to behave on that date. I think I will try to approach it as if I don't know him. In other words, I will ask questions about him as a person and not overanalyze. AND I won't be discussing the kids. And I will dress HOT. I think I will be blatant but in a take it or leave it way. He can choose to step across the chasm or not. I will try to HOM either way.
Karen
PS Lil, I think I will ask how he feels about my intiating touch etc...