Poe - good thought. I am considering that or simply just asking for him to MB me. I usually just interpret the behavior and body language as a "no" and after a few weeks initiate "the talk." The 180 would be to take a lesson from HP and initiate something ANYTHING!
Went to the C yesterday. It was singularly unproductive. My H sidestepped everything. She called him on it and he did anyway. She is meeting with him alone on Monday. She thinks he has issues with women (not me specifically) and that he MUST confront them. I AGREE. Everyone please cross their fingers/say their prayers on this one.