Quote: I have never found him "in the act" - he just matter of factly states that he does and mentions that he is sure that I MB too. I do and I consider it a poor substitute. That being said, I am a huge fan of "outside the box thinking." I have boxed myself in to protect my own ego in some ways - I need to be more forthright. Thanks.
Something out the blue sky. Try to initiate, if he balks, start MB on yourself. Tell him, it's okay if he wants to MB with you thats fine.