But part of HOM is to stay calm but force the issue nonetheless. Lovingly confront what the other person is doing or not doing.
What did you say when he did nothing? Did you retreat in shame and say nothing? (which is most likely what I would have done, btw)
I think what he needs (besides a good swift kick to the balls, just to make sure they're still in working order;) is for you to say "Is there a reason why you are acting as if you don't see me standing here half naked? Can we talk about it?"
HOY is not just about sucking it up in the face of rejection. It's holding onto yourself WHILE you confront things head on.
Sounds like he needs a wake up call. Give him a good whack with the Amplies and see what happens.
