Glad to hear I'm not the only one who sees this as unnatural and crazy. If the rest of our relationship sucked then I could understand. If one of us were ill or seriously overweight or depressed I could understand. We are just garden variety marrieds with a lot on our plate, still reasonable attractive for our age, reasonably fit, we love each other but.... WE DON'T HAVE SEX. Sometimes this has me so freaked out that I start looking for exotic reasons - I read an article in Oprah's mag about gay people who are married to straight people. I don't think that this is the case but I am running out of explanations. Half the time I don't care about the explanation I just want to see change. HP - I read through your list of goals - they are good and I may steal one or two of them.
