What's up with the masturbation? Do you know how often it is? I am not against it, but I'd be mad as a wet hen to find out that my H would have sex with me less than once per month but wanted to mbate once a week. I would request that more of his sexual energy be directed towards you.
And I find it hard to believe that his sexuality has been stunted due to the Catholic church, since both porn and mbation are no-no's in the church. Since he attended the seminary, he most certainly knows this.
Again, not to sound anti-mb (because I realize the majority of this board is not Catholic and will think I sound bizarre!), but I would be freakin furious to know that my H was making me nutz with frustration, all the while he's happily taking care of himself and leaving me out in the cold. It would be one thing if your drives were similar and he was not taking anything away from you, but that's really not the case.
One more question: Do you talk specifically when you have the Talk? I found that I had to be painfully specific when talking to H or he wouldn't get it. Even now, when I guarantee he gets it, I still have mixed results. I'm off to write about that on my own thread, however.
