That's my hubby too. A few weeks ago I was trying to initiate a LM session with him...and he just kept acting goofy in bed. Tickling me and acting like a clown...in short killing my libido fast! It really irritated me at the time, but now I know...he really doesn't know what to do...he's VERY uncomfortable in that situation.
He really enjoys sex once he gets into it and gets going, but he just doesn't know what to do to get there. With us it's one of two positions all the time....nothing new EVER and I can count on 2 fingers how many times I've had oral...but I give it whenever I can.
A good friend of mine recently recommended a book to me (she's aware of our situation, she's my best bud.) that she and her bf have used that's a lot of fun. It's a book that contains envelopes with ideas/suggestions...some fully sexual, some non penetration etc. I thought I'd try to find this and get it for us...because then I can be doing new stuff along with him and learning too Hopefully taking some of the awkwardness for him away in the process.
If I can find this I'll let you know what it's called, if nothing else it looks like fun...so that with a bottle of wine would probably help loosen our H's up for us to have some fun!!!
Hopefully taking some of the awkwardness for him away in the process.
