Karen, When you mentioned your husband went to Seminary for a few years it made be think of John Gray, PhD, you know the one who wrote Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus, he also wrote Mars and Venus in the bedroom. He was in the seminary for nine years and in his books he talks about his experiences and inexperience with women given that fact. I can't think if he said anything that may be relavent to your sitch but it maybe someone your husband could relate to. You said you went to therapy so he is willing to try. This was just a thought. Truly, Jennifer
