I am sorry that you two are fighting. As long as you don't say or do things that will cause permanent hurt, then it really is just a part of the process.
Quote: --------------- NOP, YOu know, one question has been bobbing around my brain since yesterday. WHY do I need him to want me. Why, indeed? ---------------
And the answer is so simple that it is easy to miss. We ALL need to be wanted. It is basic human.
What makes it so interesting is that your husband has exactly the same need as you, yet needs it filled in a different way than you.
What I was trying to encourage you to do yesterday, was to attempt to meet his need both as a reward for his efforts, even if they are lame, and as an acknowledgment that his need is legitimate and as important as yours.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
