P.S. Nop, I hear ya on the performance issue. I forgot to respond to that. I'm not sure what to think about that one, as my H is totally up for sex as long as it is entirely by his rules. So does performance anxiety only come when there is a request for something, as opposed to being driven by H? And bear in mind that the things I request are always the stuff that we do anyway. THere is never a request for anything that he doesn't do on his own.
I thought that I had communicated to him a few weeks ago that I wasn't angling for monkey sex. I told him....H, what you've been doing lately is exactly what I was talking about--thank you for trying and for being such a great lover! He was tickled by that.
I'm confused and hungry and really leaving this time.
