*flags on the field* Referee: "delay of game, Mrs.HP - penalty declined. false start, Mr. HP - penalty declined. no legal receiver 'down'there, Mr. HP - 10minute anger penalty & loss of privilege."
So, if it's H's favorite activity but not yours... and he declined to proceed with it, instead giving you some good erotic stuff... why are you overanalyzing it? Offer him another chance when he's more awake. I'm sure you could "accidentally pretend to fall asleep" with your legs somewhat open or something.