I am really happy for you guys. It sounds to me that your H finally had an epiphany like my H did back in the C office...where he finally "got it" too.
You may have hit a turning point in this problem, now that he's really able to relate to how important this is to you (at a minimum, with praying about it). Obviously his religion is very important to him, and pointing out to him that you've prayed over how to deal with this...well, I would think that would at the very least hit something he can relate to.
I'm soooo proud of you for finally coming out and saying what you needed to. HP, if you are half the woman you are on this board (and I have no doubt that you are) don't be afraid to show your husband that woman...she's a great person!!
That's so easy for me to say...but that's what I'm working on doing myself with my H. I'm trying so hard not to harbor hurt feelings and to let them out...and to let him see that sexy, intelligent, goofball that I am. And in turn allow him to show me the real him as well, which I know he hasn't...and am waiting anxiously to see.
Great progress & geat post! Now, lets go have that beer
