Hairy, I'm glad to 'see' you this morning. I was watching the weather on Wednesday and it looked like the big snowstorm was literally on your travel path the entire time. I was hoping you made it to your destination safe and sound!
To the rest, thanks for your commiseration. According to H, there was no diabolical reason for ditching the anni sex. Just tiredness and him not being aware that I "wanted it".
As far as naked spooning, I don't get it either. Although I have noticed that H will cuddle with the hot-dog-in-buns completely on the nights when he might be amenable to ML. The nights when he has already counted it out, he spoons but without the doggie in buns. His chest is touching my back and his knees are wrapped up in my own, but his dog is nowhere to be found. Must have his back arched to beat the band so that there is no chance for contact, lol! Those are, of course, the nights when spooning doesn't last long and he rolls over--who could maintain that position for any length of time?