honeypot, maybe you need to give H a K-Mart "Blue Lite Special" "Good for the next 10 minuets only in the bedroom department" "Quickies, two for the price of one" "Must be carried out with in 30 minuets of eachother" Or "ML till your knees buckle" type business card when you want to ML. Yes, my idea of an anniversary ALWAYS includes ML, but my W's idea of an anniversary is another thing sometimes.
Did you H think you needed more time to get over your fall? Was H giving you space to recouperate? Tell your H since he missed ML on your anniversary it is going to cost him double tonight. (friendly banter type of conversation between you and H)